We are trying to get to OK to See Husband and Father

My daughter and I are trying to get to Oklahoma to spend New Years with my new hasband and her new father. He is active duty. We got Married in November, so I don't have the military documents yet to get the flight discounts. It's kind of hard and it hurts that we can't get to him. Is there any possible way we can figure out a way to get to him?


Look into cheap flights on the internet
Buy a cheap raft.
There are sometimes much cheaper flights without using a military discount. I would search online and see what you find. Also, gas is very inexpensive what about renting a car or driving your own?