I do hope you are keeping detailed records. If you are not doing so, it is almost impossible to track your spending. You need to look into managing your funds with appropriate software such as Mint, Quicken, etc. I also hope you receive monthly financial statements to which you reconcile your records. If you do not have a system of record keeping and financial management you should get in touch with someone who can help you. Veterans groups in some communities offer help to famiilies where one memeber is deployed. At the very least your local bank may be able to help you. You definitely need to fully understand where your money is going.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. As a community manager I am unable to access your accounts or review any history to offer any advice on your current issue. I would encourage you to start keeping a budget and perhaps use some of the budgeting tools available on USAA.com. Please contact a member services representative by clicking here or by telephone at 1-800-531-8722, especially if you believe any fraud has been occuring on your account.
It's pretty darn easy to see where your money goes with USAA. logged in, the tab My Account Tools, under Budgeting and Goals, select Track Your Money. I've had quite a few moments of wait!!! What the !!! Ooooh yea :D Osnap I spent it all... The plus, no need to wait for a statement. It's right there staring you in the face.... The painful truth..
Also, USAA allows you the option of editing the spending categories. USAA will assign a "likely" cost category to your transactions once they have posted to your accounts, but you should be able to click on that and then change it to somethign more accurate. USAA has a reasonably comprehensive category list already set up and allows you to add subcategories also.
Under My Accounts, select the account that you want to review your transactions, Then click on the green arrow at the right of the pre-assigned category. A drop down box appears. You can type in the first few letters ofh te category and the website will try to find it, or you can manually find it in the drop down box. If you want to "Manage Categories" click on the blue link that is the first option in the drop down box.